In positive terms, we can state that psychological maturity entails finding greater satisfaction in giving than in receiving having a capacity to form satisfying and permanent loyalties being primarily a creative, contributing person having learned to profit from experience having a freedom from fear (anxiety) with a resulting true serenity and not a pseudo absence of tension and accepting and making the most of unchangeable reality when it confronts one.
The angels asked, 'O God Is there anything of Thy creation stronger than rocks' God said, 'Yes iron is stronger than rocks, for it breaketh them.' The angels said, 'O Lord Is there anything of Thy creation stornger than iron' God said, 'Yes fire is stronger than iron, for it melteth it.' And the angels said, O defender Is there anything of Thy creation stronger than fire' God said, 'Yes water overcometh fire it killeth it and maketh it cold.' Then the angels said, 'O Lord Is there anything of Thy creation stronger than water' God said, 'Yes wind overcometh water it agitateth it and putteth it in motion.' They said, 'O our cherisher Is there anything in Thy creation stronger than wind' God said, 'Yes, the children of Adam, giving alms that is, those who give with their right hands and conceal if from their left, they overcome all.'