There is luxury in self-reproach. When we blame ourselves we feel no on else has a right to blame us.
Blame-all and Praise-all are two blockheads.
Blame someone else and get on with your life.
If something goes wrong, it is more important to talk about who is going to fix it, than who is to blame.
And he (God) said… “Have you eaten from the tree that I commanded you not to eat from?” The man said, “The woman you put here with me – she gave me some fruit from the tree, and I ate it.” The Lord God said to the woman, “What is this you have done?” The […]
If you reveal your secrets to the wind you should not blame the wind for revealing them to the trees.
Once a wrong doer has accepted his or her sentence, take it for granted that he or she is sorry and intends never to behave badly again. Then, treat the former wrongdoer well. Never blame anyone. In the other person’s place you might have done the same.
When you plant lettuce, if it does not grow well, you don’t blame the lettuce. You look for reasons it is not doing well. It may need fertilizer, or more water, or less sun. You never blame the lettuce. Yet if we have problems with our friends or our family, we blame the other person. […]
This is an old saying, Atula, it is not a saying of today. ‘They blame the man who is silent, they blame the man who speaks too much, and they blame the man who speaks too little.’ No man can escape blame in the world.
We are taught you must blame your father, your sisters, your brothers, the school, the teachers – you can blame anyone, but never blame yourself. It’s never your fault. But it’s always your fault, because if you wanted to change, you’re the one who has got to change. It’s as simple as that, isn’t it?